Trust in a relationship is built on the bridge of kept promises.Your husband made a vow to love, honor, and cherish you, and you say that he also vowed to discontinue his sexy chat with women on the Internet.So the question is, what do we do about our marriage?
His reaction was unfair, cold, and mean considering that he is the one who betrayed your relationship.
Couples therapy is the only way to give your marriage a fighting chance.
The only way you’ll see him or find him is if you shut the rest of the noise down.
That guy…one closer to your values, well, he takes his time, too. He might think you expect a shirtless pic right at the beginning!
Instead of squashing the hurtful situation, he amplified it.
By sending naked pictures to strangers, your husband is putting himself, you, and your family at risk for everything from public humiliation to blackmail.Should he eliminate his page or share one with me or what?Please help, we don't want to end our marriage, but I am not going to take this anymore. Signed, RELATED: Intimacy Intervention: ‘I Caught My Husband Secretly Taping Us!I asked him why did he feel the need to talk to women like this.He said he was just joking around and didn't really mean anything by it. Yesterday I went onto his Facebook page and found him once again sexually chatting with women. So once again I asked why he felt the need to do this. ____You haven’t even had your first date yet and he’s already asking you your favorite position. It’s nearly every single time you start a conversation with a prospective date. If you’re not interested in a man once he brings up sex too early on, have a good standard response ready, one that reflects your boundaries.That being said, I know it’s important for people to speak their truth and that part of that truth is not just communicating your lack of interest but that you find such talk so early on offensive. You get to decide what interests you, what you’re comfortable with, and what attracts you.’ Fed-Up Wife My Dearest Fired-Up Woman, I am so sorry that you are experiencing this.A dishonest spouse and infidelity in any form is painful and calls into question your entire relationship.If your husband’s response to frustration in the marriage is to step outside of the marriage, even if it is just online, your relationship is broken at the foundation.You are right to feel like you don’t want to take this anymore. Any time a partner in a relationship is engaged in sexual behavior with another person that he doesn’t want his life partner to know about (virtual, on the phone, or in person), this is infidelity.