I just couldn’t get it right, even after trying 3-4 times. I’m wondering why a narcissist would ask for a full body shot? Generally speaking, there are two main red flags involved when someone you have met online is asking you for a full body shot. that’s up to you but it’s good to be aware that they all contain a LOT of narcissists and to protect yourselves accordingly – thankfully most of them have ways to block folks. I agree with your article and believe all online anything can be dangerous. Reply Hi Mag, Thank you for reading my article and for stopping by.When in my early 30’s I did newspaper ads, then after a while starting in my late 30’s, I did the online thing, one of my first was ok cupid…I met someone there in my early 40’s who turned out to be a narcissistic weirdo who only wanted one thing, and it wasnt a committed relationship (at least with me), unfortunately, it took me a while to get over that emotional obsession, by the time I did, it was really too late for me -nature had taken away my ability to have children…I have had 100% bad stuff from every online dating service I joined and that has been over a dozen and the men there…from being stood up, to meeting psychos who boldly put up pictures that were not them or from 20 yrs prior, to being abused verbally or emotionally, to being lied, to promises of love that never happened, to being coaxed to give of myself just to be taken advantage of…You can see, I don’t need an article to keep me away, but keep spreading the word, so others might know. I asked what was the day’s weather like in Santa Ana, he gave me Raleigh’s NC weather, like 20 degrees hotter than CA. I know there are out there vulnerable people that can fell for people like this guy… I’ve been dipping my toes in the water, but the idea of dating really scares the crap out of me!Reply I messaged with this guy from Santa Ana, CA on OKC. He “grew up” in South Africa (That’s a big red flag) overseas people always end up asking for money. My point is; if someone approaches you mentioning south Africa, the UK, a military career, most likely it’s a scam. Those were only the ones in person and I at one time close to 100 messages from different people on the site that red flags were so bad I did not even respond to the message. I have been trying out Bumble which gives women all the power, so that one feels the safest so far. Sure, you can anticipate some level of flack – that’s what it is, right or wrong, to be female on the internet. They wanted some kind of “relationship” with a girl without putting any work into it. In the real world, there is always an effort – at the very least, to be civil.I accept that it will take time to get over (in this case) my BPD lover. \ Until then, I am grateful for my health, my friendships, my sobriety, and for my accomplishments. Reply Hi Kim – Your work helped me recover from a love affair with someone who had textbook NPD, Thank You! While recovering from NPD boyfriend, I did use POF and OKC, looking specifically for buddies with similar interests.Three years later I’m off the sites because I’ve found real love, but a few of my current best friends are men I met on these sites. Reply Kim, you have been very helpful in so many ways.People who want full body shots also tend to watch a lot of pornography and they will compare you to the people they’re looking at on porn sites, and 2) Again, generally speaking, sending someone a full body shot is really a personal thing. I don’t want to hurt him but I don’t want to lose him as a friend am I wrong should I tell him and take a chance of losing him or keep my secret? 3 Dating Sites to Avoid That are Crawling with Narcissists […] Reply You forgot Linked In as the new dating site!!! Reply You are right about Linked In, it is definitely become a NARC site, being that an ex whom is an extreme serial relationship and marriage narcissist was always pushing his and trying to get everyone elses’ info.And sure enough, we both answered complete opposite to some important questions. Our accounts were still mutual when I got it slapped all in my face – Reply I was relieved to read this page I was begining to think ‘is it me? I have been on’ ourtime ‘for over three months the anger Iv’e encountered because I had no photo was just unreasonable even when Iv’e explained that photo’s can be copied put else where. – Resisted and put up a struggle when I wanted to end things.I did not feel safe putting my photo on line to because of the fact I suspect my ex is a covert narcissist and all that goes with it , I really think we need to look at ‘on line dating sites ‘like they have in the USA and make them more accountable for the slap dash was they can some times run their sites. Reply Hi Kim my advice for anyone who is involved with a narissist.. Pack your bags anger as far away from them as you can. They have to put you Down to f3l good about themselfs sad really. – No or few irl connections with real people — one of them had no friends and the other had one who also seemed narcy, and this one also held onto his ex as a friend with benefits behind my back.