Pushing him to put you at the center of his life will only push him away, and make you seem self centered.Instead, relax and demonstrate to him that you support his need to handle his life.You start to wonder if he's really even interested in you anymore.
Whatever it is, guys definitely don't like to feel “forced” to commit.
They'll rail against the pressure to commit with their entire being!
If he's taking a step back and claiming some space for himself, it doesn't mean he doesn't want to be vulnerable with you.
It just means he wants to prepare himself and make sure he's ready for it. Don't try to force him to open up to you, and don't put pressure on him. Demonstrate that you can be patient and low-key, and that you aren't going to push him to be vulnerable with you before he's ready.
If a guy is going to move forward with a relationship, he wants to feel as if it's his choice.
And trust me, you want him to be sure of that choice.
You've met a good guy and the two of you seem to have quite a bit of chemistry.
He's showing up, planning dates, and putting in effort, and you start to imagine what it would be like to be in a relationship with this guy.
There are a few reasons why the guy you are seeing may be distancing himself.
Especially if he's been hurt in the past, his reason for pulling away may simply be fear.