Until you've walked a mile in someone's shoes, you shouldn't judge.
I think a lot of people use sex as a way to feel validated and wanted...problem is, if you allow yourself to be physically used- it's not going to make you feel better psychologically and the feelings of emptiness and aloneness will still persist.
Additionally: If you ever happen to develop a conscious, you also feel guilty about being a liar and a cheater (if your partner doesn't know what's going on)...
I'm very upfront about my situation, & made it clear in my ad.
I've chosen a lover that is in a very similar situation.
Just my opinion as everyone has the freedom to click!
I can understand where you're coming from, & to some extent I agree, however, you can love, honour & cherish your spouse & still have sexual relations outside of marriage.
Should I ignore my needs, & give more selflessly than I already have? You make me sick...*pukes*I have to say that I totally agree..is this kind of mentality that has produced the extremely high divorce rates and the premise that it is okay to live in a "throw away" society that views marriage and practically everything else as some form of entertainment and "if it's broke..get a new one and keep that until you get tired of that one too"!
Believe me when I tell you, there is most certainly true love, but there is also lust & sexual desire. The brush with death both my husband & I experience made us realize.......is worth living. What I can't figure out is why people even bother getting married if they want to go out and sleep around..not just stay single and hoe around?
Don't click on them, anytime you do a royalty is paid to POF.
If POF is not making enough money they will use that add space on a more profitable link. And lose their status as the worlds largest free dating site, not going to happen!