"According to [straight girl] Sarah, Grindr is just fun (or funny), an odd little window onto the fantastic cornucopia of sexual self-expression that is the gay community." Sarah's not going to want a little window into Pop-Pop's chess league.
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One of the primary benefits of Grindr is its clarity. My friend and I found that some people are coming to Blendr in search of a true Grindr analog.
Logged in as me, my friend send very straightforward messages to men ("Hey, what are you up to tonight?
Unlike Grindr, which Gawker's Adrian Chen explains "is a sex buffet--Yelp for penises," Blendr has a squarer mission: It facilitates friendships, app creator Simkhai Joel Shimkai explains to the Daily Beast's Itay Hod.
"The straight version is not a dating site but a way to make connections. As Simkhai admits, there are already online platforms for friend-making, like Facebook.
Today the world welcomes Blendr, Grindr for straights. Think: Bravo, hip urban neighborhoods, and some might even argue Lady Gaga.
The app targeted at gay men has over 2.6 million users in 192 countries, so an extension into the straight world seemed logical. But sometimes, there are things the straight community will never latch on to, and efforts at extending a phenomenon fall flat. ) It looks like Grindr might fall into the later category.On Blendr, it's a space to indicate whether you’re currently eating a burrito or at a concert or whatever.The search results for users in my area included gay men and straight women, even after we set my profile to indicate that I'm a woman who's into men. It's meant to be for everyone looking for everything, so it's not working for anyone.For almost as long, I've been telling just about anyone who will listen to me that we need a heterosexual version of this technology. Data from online dating websites actually shows the opposite: Men are picky, and women are far more forgiving and flexible when it comes to seeking a partner. For this reason, there is a standard refrain I hear when I express the need for a hetero Grindr: It won’t work because women won’t use it.'Facebook does a great job keeping you connected with people you already know,' says Simkhai, 'but how do you meet new people? include women meeting to practice French or a "a 60-year-old guy trying to find a guy to play poker with." Riveting.It's more like "an electronic knitting circle you can keep in your pocket" continues Chen. Millions of people, gay and straight alike, log on to Grindr for its sexiness."), who almost immediately replied with dick pics and winking emoticons.Somehow, penis photography is even less appealing in Blendr's "just friends" trappings. Even for the modern woman who knows she wants a casual hookup, declaring this on a public profile will result in such an avalanche of attention, potential social stigma, and legitimate safety concerns that it negates the ease of using such an app.And for the subset of non-gay users looking for a Grindr-esque experience, the vanilla treatment will push them away, argues Chen."It's still going to totally alienate the impulsive, horny straight people, which we hear do exist outside of reality TV, and who realistically will be the only ones who might find a use for what amounts to a GPS-coordinated flesh finder." Grindr took off because it appealed to a subset of people with commonalities.