It was narrated that Ma’qil ibn Yasaar (may Allaah be pleased with him) said: A man came to the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) and said: I have found a woman who is of good lineage and beautiful, but she cannot have children. Then he came to him a third time and he said: “Marry the one who is loving and fertile, for I will be proud of your great numbers before the nations.” Narrated by al-Nasaa’i (3227) and Abu Dawood (2050).
Sham al-Deen Abaadi (may Allaah have mercy on him) said: Wudood (loving) means she loves her husband.
and what should be the attitude of my mother and also my attitude towards this issue . Firstly: In your question you said that your father married a Hindu woman and made her become Muslim.
If the marriage contract was done when she was a Hindu, and she became a Muslim after that, then the marriage is invalid, and your father should do a new marriage contract, because Allaah has forbidden Muslim men to marry mushrik women until they become Muslim.
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I had tried to get a clear answer for my question for 3 yrs but in vain hope inshallah i get a reply from u.i am 23 yr old,i hav one mom and dad have been married for 25 yrs.3yrs back my father married a hindu widow women converting her to we have had problems in home from then has two sons from her first husband who died.